Adrianne Lenker (Big Thief) at Space Ballroom 3.1.18

Lately I’ve been doing more comedy shows and trips but missing out on when I used to go to random music shows. In LA the Satellite had a fun cheap night of music (which I wrote about a lot here) and I really miss that. I decided to look up the calendar to the hippest+cheapest local music venue (The Ballroom on Treadwell St in Hamden,CT), and I picked out a random midweek concert to check out. I googled Adrianne Lenker, listened to her Spotify station and got tickets to her show for March 1st, 2018.


I for sure felt like one of the oldest people in the room, which I didn’t expect given the mature mellow songs that Adrianne Lenker and Henry Jamison (her opener) performed. I guess I anticipated an older crowd, but I was wrong.


Adrianne’s opener was Henry Jamison, who was really excellent. You should check him out on Spotify. He also has a song playing at Starbucks (or so he mentioned at the show). Henry’s stories between songs showcased what a hilarious weirdo he is, and I really mean that lovingly. He’s a quiet, chill, unique guy and I loved his antidotes.


Henry will be back to New Haven at Cafe Nine on April 6th. Check out his music video here for Real Peach.


Adrianne Lenker came out next. She was having some anxiety, as this was the first stop on her tour and she’d been living the last year as an introvert. One of the first things to happen as she took the stage was to have a guitar string snap as she was tuning up. Thankfully there were at least 5 visible guitars on stage with her so it was an easy swap out, although Im sure it didn’t help with her anxiety.


Once she started playing, she got back in the groove of things and she played beautifully and confidently. We got to hear a lot of new music that will come out later this year and she even let the audience tell her what to play as she closed out the night. Check out this link to see if she’s coming near you soon!


Dragaret, February 17, 2018


Yale’s Dragaret (aka Drag Cabaret) took place this last weekend at the Yale Cabaret on York Street. I got a hard-to-get ticket to the 10pm showing, braved a snow storm to check this event out… and it was totally worth it.


Going into this I had no idea what to expect, other than a good time. I’d never been to the Cabaret before (although I’ll for sure be back) and walked into a basement room of a Yale building with a few tables, a few chairs, and a runway with matching giant LCD screen on the ceiling.

I learned two things I wasn’t expecting. First, they had a celebrity host from RuPaul’s Drag Race season 4, Jiggly CalienteΒ (new album out 3.6.18)! I had no clue there would be a guest host and was shocked it wasn’t in the advertising for the event.

Second, bring those dolls’ bills girl! No one’s stripping (well, not everyone) but that doesn’t mean they don’t deserve tips for how they’re workin’ it on stage. The dancing, singing/lip-syncing, the theatrics… they deserve some $$$. Plus most audience members knew the drill had had packed a wad of $1’s in their pockets in anticipation. I felt like a schmuck, cash-less (Im all digital) and it would have been too hard to coordinate everyone’s Venmo accounts.

I should also note that the 10pm show was only including Yale students in the Cabaret. I think the Thursday night even featured drag performers from around New Haven (not exclusive to just Yale).


Here she is, Miss Jiggly Cliente! She was very funny and definitely kept it real with the audience. She came out at the beginning and between each of the performances to introduce the next performer.


I need to apologize to the first few performers, because the images I took of them were so blurry they weren’t really quality enough to share. In the beginning I was timid taking photos because I didn’t know the level of audience participation and didn’t want to end up part of the show. Thankfully the show was totally about their performances and not a ton of audience participation (except for the accepting of cash guests were handing out). Because of my timidness, I didn’t take as many images and super regret it. My sincere apologies to the performers who’s photos I am not able to share here.


People have since asked me, “What kind of performing did they do on stage?” and it totally varied. Some performers actually sang (and tough songs too!) while others lip-synced. Some did dances and sang. There were a couple that felt like interpretive dance, where they were singing and dancing but also telling an abstract story.


The above two girls performed a detailed choreographed dance to a Beyonce song together.


Then the next performer danced and lip-synced to a Taylor Swift song with two backup dancers. It was so hard to chose a favorite at the end of the night because they were all so good and different, but this performance was very memorable and I enjoyed it.



The above two images are Michael Costagliola doing a broadway worthy performance.


There were several impressive song and dance numbers leading up to Jiggly Caliente’s big finish. She did an AMAZING Missy Elliot impersonation. She lip-synced to Β medley of Missy Elliot songs and danced in a very Missy Elliot way.


After Jiggly Caliente’s medley, the rest of performances came out onto the stage and danced it out. They invited the audience to join them and we had a blast. Since there was a midnight show, the theater needed to empty out so the next audience could roll in. I have to imagine the midnight showing really ended in a longer dance party.


Thank you Yale’s Dragaret for a super fun night! I can’t wait for next years and now know… BRING SINGLES!

Because it was too hard to hear and remember who was which performer, Im going to list their names here and just say they were all fantastic:

Stella Baker, Michael Breslin, Jiggly Caliente, Michal Costagliola, Error Crawford, Antoinette Crowe-Legacy, Al Hartley, Courtney Jamison, Rachel Kenney, Ciara McMillian, JJ McGlone, Hudson Oznowicz, Ilia Isorelys Paulino, Jakeem Powell, Riw Rakkulchon, Arturo Soria, Alex Vermillion, and Emma Weinstein.

Thursday February 1st, 2018


No idea who made this graphic (it was on many websites and none created it)


It’s February first- who’s given up on those New Year resolutions yet? I’m for sure slacking on a couple lately. My step count each night has been around 7,000… not good. I’m also writing this while a pile of clothes sits next to me on the floor (aka procrastination city).

I’ve decided to rededicate myself to 4 goals this month. First, hit 10,000 steps a day. The days are getting longer and it’s lighter in the morning to start the day with a 30 minute walk. The gym won’t be as busy since those resolution goers have probably started scaling back.

Drink more water. Keep a log or download an app for it, but drink drink drink!

Third, stop procrastinating on the day to day stuff. Pick up your clothes, or don’t put them somewhere where they need to be clean up in the first place.

Lastly, since starting the year I’ve been bad about a little “journal” I keep. I try to write one sentence a day about something I feel good about and lately life has become chaotic and I’ve lost my routine of doing that. That’s something that really makes me feel better, when I can look back at a month where I say “I’ve not done that much” and realize, no I’ve done a lot. It might not be big monumental stuff, but it’s been a month full of positive things.

I’ve been bad about keeping my journal but here are some of my January highlights:

NYC Women’s March

Maria Bamford at College Street Music Hall

I listened to 3+ audiobooks!

I have a new window in my wood shop at B.Meyer Studio (let there be light!)

I joined the Nutmeg Collective (a CT based network of makers+small business owners)

I’m reenergized with some new Meyer Wire electrical products

I’ve officially done 32 days not the Whole30 diet (it’s been tough!). Two more weeks to go, as Im doing the Whole 43 (leading up to Valentines Day).

I died my hair a regrettable shade of blonde, which Im still adjusting to. Even if it’s not my best look, sometimes it’s fun to mix it up and try something different.

I saw two plays this month: Office Hour at Long Wharf (intense!) and Field Guide at Yale Repertory Theater (very fun and abstract… I LOVED it!).

There were acupuncture evenings, and dinners with friends and Oscar walks. There was a lot of coordinating for 2018. I’ve got weekends saved for out of town trips in 2018 and two reunion weekends in February alone! There’s a lot to be excited about, and still a lot left to figure out.

And maybe at some point I can do some activities where photography is allowed. I’d love to go to events and share them with you but you’d be surprised how often I go to things where Im not allowed to take photographs.

Sunday, January 14, 2018

Look at me, following though with my blogging goals (when I could be watching Stranger Things!). I’ve been doing my best at “adulting” all week. Gym visits, cleaning, so much cooking, and doing my best at work to maintain my December productivity. The Christmas rush always has me really pushing myself to produce a lot of product in a short amount of time and I’m doing my best to keep that as normal. We’ll see.

I wish I could post that this weekend has been filled with adventure, but sometimes you need a weekend to clean out closets, dust, food prep, and cross things off the to do list. The most “excitement” I had this weekend was braving the cold to take Oscar on a couple of his favorite walks which we haven’t done in 2 months due to cold temps and the Christmas rush. He hated it, but it felt good to be outside of my bubble.

This past week I’ve been really mindful of the micro-procrastinating that I often do without thinking and am working to break that bad habit. Sometimes it’s as simple as “I left my glass on the coffee table- I’ll just pick it up and wash it in the morning” and I’m really surprised at how often I think “Oh, Ill just do that later”. This past week of cutting that stuff out has made me have a higher step count each day, and also has upgraded my quality of life a bit. Taking that glass example, when I deal with the glass on the coffee table in the moment (aka go wash it and put it in the dishwasher) it means when I wake up in the morning I’m waking up to a clean living room with one less thing to deal with. It’s setting me up to a better day, when I don’t wake up and already have a to-do list nagging me. This is a small example, but when you get things done in the moment they don’t pile up and become a burden.

Today is the 14th at 9pm, which means I am 3 hours away from being halfway through the Whole30. In my case I’m doing a Whole44 (doing this diet until Valentines Day) so Im really not halfway done.. but Im trying not to think about that. I can tell you Ive been eating more fruit this cycle. I think it has to do with me missing the sugar I let myself have over Christmas. At least it’s natural sugar and Im trying not to go overboard. I’m also finding myself passing up adventure opportunities because Im worried about food. For example, this weekend became a “get stuff done around the house you’ve been putting off forever” (which was a good thing) because my alternative of go into NYC for the day, or do a drive about to a part of CT you’ve not been to would leave me struggling to figure out how/where I could eat lunch. Every activity I could think of left me thinking “what do I do about lunch?”. I just keep telling myself that after February 14th, I’ll be able to do more exciting things when Im not sticking so strictly to the Whole30.

And one small victory for the week- I’ve already finished my first audiobook for the year! It was Roxanne Gay’s, Bad Feminist. It was so interesting listening to that book while also reading her newest book, Hunger. There was some overlap, but interesting to hear more of her voice on other topics. The book was also written in 2013 (around then) in a totally different time politically, so that’s been interesting. I find myself wanting to warn her of the future.

Thank you for your patience with my Sunday self-indulgent ramblings. I wish I had more to share than just an accountability check in, but we are only 2 weeks in to 2018. There’s more time for adventure in 2018.

Recap of 2017, and on to 2018


If you’ve been following my (lately dormant) blog, you know I LOVE resolutions.

2017 taught me that my local library has an online library that I can rent e/audio books from for free, which is how I learned about my love of audiobooks. I also studied my reading habits and determined that I was doing it all wrong. In my mind reading is done before bed, but if you’re reading a good book, it excites you and wakes you up. I need to carve out caffeinated time to read. Since thats a valuable commodity to me (caffeinated time), I read less than I intended for the year, but more than made up for it in audiobooks. If carving out reading time doesn’t work for you, try audiobooks and it might just change your life (like mine).

I realized that I basically spent one weekend a month away from home in 2017. This was an unintentional decision but one Im hoping to bring with me into 2018. I traveled to Croatia/Albania/Montenegro/Bosnia/Greece as a solo traveler with a group of strangers (who became my friends). I hate traveling alone, and found a way to be brave and meet new people while exploring new places.

I also hiked with a hiking group and got to meet strangers on the trail (Women Who Hike), which got me exercising and out of my comfort zone. It also made me realize I miss getting up at 6am on a Saturday to make a sunrise car ride to a new experience or go on an adventure (this I did a lot in LA before I moved east). I’ll need to do more of this in 2018.

Two things I tried out for the first time- the Keto diet ad the Whole30 diet. This was not a specific goal for the year, but I wanted to tackle weightloss and learn more about what Im eating. In LA diet came easy- everyone in LA is on a diet. The restaurants cook healthier because of it and there’s SO much healthy fast food options available to you. In LA a “cheat meal” for me was a beer and some sushi on a Friday night (to celebrate the end of an exhausting week. In New Haven, a cheat meal is Pepe’s pizza or amazing Italian food.. which is waaaay worse for you than sushi. I also learned two important things based on my Keto (high fat, zero sugar+carbs) and Whole30 (natural foods/ingredients only) diet: Sugar give me acne. I always thought dairy was the culprit but after Keto took me off all carbs and sugar I saw my acne (a lifelong problem) go away.. like completely. While this is great news, I felt like doing the Keto diet for an extended period of time was a bad idea (it’s SO much fat and butter). The Whole30 diet is similar, saying no to anything processed so that the only sugars I get are natural sugars. While on the Whole30 my acne has gotten significantly better (not as perfect as the keto diet) and this diet makes me feel very healthy as everything going into my body is from the earth and not from a laboratory. It means a lot of cooking (bummer) but it gets easier with time and I still get to eat delicious meals. And don’t get me started on what it does for your digestive system (AMAZING!). Anywho, I love it so Im back on it for at least the first 6 weeks of 2018, if not longer.

2017 wasn’t a big comedy year for me (I did see some) but it did make me appreciate my local theater. Im close to the Yale Repertory and to Long Wharf, and both get prestigious plays. Some do runs here before they open on Broadway. Also by supporting the local theater/arts, it like investing in your neighborhood and is a payment you can feel good about. The theater is something that keeps New Haven special.

Lets talk birthdays! In 2017 I sent actually birthday cards to people instead of just the Facebook “happy birthday” message. I sent over 50 birthday cards this past year! It was really fun picking out the cards and taking the time to think about my friendship with the person getting the card. While I got maybe 5 birthday cards back on my birthday, that’s not why I did it. I now know how much energy and forethought goes into sending a birthday card and it makes me appreciate the ones I get even more and I totally get why doing birthday cards aren’t on peoples radar. That being said, Im excited to continue this new tradition in 2018. Friends, get ready for more birthday cards!

Now its time for the goals I sucked at in 2017. Having a regular volunteering routine. I never found “my place” where I could go and volunteer a few hours a week and set up a routine. Im really hoping to correct this in 2018.

Self-care. I suck at self-care. The only addition to my routine that Im proud of in 2017 is acupuncture. I found a love of acupuncture and Im never going back. It makes me feel amazing and community acupuncture makes it much more affordable to go on a regular basis. I highly recommend it. It really does feel like magic- aches and pains gone!

Another thing I sucked at, my car. It has dents I need fixed and recall paperwork I need to follow up on. It’s probably the biggest thing in my life that I avoid. Getting my oil changed? It takes me weeks of having it on a to-do list before I get it done. I think 2018 needs to be about identifying when Im putting something off and then just getting it done so it’s a weight that can be alleviated from my mental list.


Okay, so enough of 2017 and on to 2018! Lets get specific! Here are some goals (in addition to what I mentioned above).

Health– Avoid sugar (as I said above). Do more of the Whole30, and really take advantage of your local gym membership. You pay for it so use it. Make hitting your step goals (via Fitbit) a priority. Do your best to hit 10,000 steps a day and push yourself to reach 12,000 steps. 1 day a week if you can’t make this goal (due to travel or commitments or weather) Β you get a pass. Don’t beat yourself up about it because some days you need a pass… but not more than one day a week πŸ˜‰ Also, try a new class at the gym that makes you nervous. You just might end up loving the class and adding it to your routine.

Travel– In 2018 make a valiant effort to travel to a new place one weekend a month. Use Airbnb, and really immerse yourself in a new location. For example, it only takes a weekend to see the basics in any US city, so do more weekend visits to parts of the country that aren’t THAT far away. For example, meet up with a friend in Nashville or Memphis and have a weekend of exploring. This makes it more affordable and is a great way to catch up with a friend who lives far away. Also, one thing Im doing this yea is getting a TSA background check so that when I fly within the US, no more lines. This will take a little organizing and prep on my end but will end up being WAY worth it (the pre-check TSA thing lasts for 5 years!).

Also on my travel list- Africa in 2018! More on this later.

Environmental Impact– not only do I need to be doing more volunteering but I want to make a solid effort of avoiding plastic. Sometimes you can’t avoid it, but when presented with any other option (paper, aluminum, glass) Im going to go for the more green option. I think I already do this, but I want to really be mindful about how often Im faced with a “paper or plastic” type situation and do my best to avoid disposable plastic.

Books — This year go for reading 1 book a month and listening to at least 2 audiobooks a month. This is a better goal for me, and totally doable with my lifestyle.

Car — I talked about this earlier, but step avoiding things that have to do with your car. Get the oil changed and get new windshield wipers. Get it into the dealership for all the real/updates that need to be done. And maybe, yes maybe, get those darn dents fixed!

Self-care — Get on this girl! It turns out acupuncture is amazing, so do your diligence and make all those appointments you’ve been putting off!

One of the bigger themes of my 2018 goals is to do the things you’ve been avoiding. This could mean instead of thinking “Oh I’ll bring this thing in the other room later”. Don’t do it later, do it now. You’ll get more steps doing it immediately and then it’s just done and off the to-do list. This is a micro example of a macro issue in my life. I find it applies to so many things on this list and it’s the root of a pattern I get into where I feel like I have “too much to do” and overwhelmed. I think dealing with these micro things I keep putting off will make me feel significantly better in the day to day.

Lastly, blog more. I always say this and this is the one goal that gets lost in the mix. It seems like my 2017 blogging time went toward reading more and exercising more, but really I can carve out 15 minutes on a Sunday (When Im not traveling) to give a quick update. That would probably be a nice creative outlet for myself that’s been lacking in my life.

Onward and upward to 2018!

P.S. I have a TON of professional goals not worth getting into here (do more events, sell in more shops, etc) but it’s a Sunday, so lets not think about work, okay πŸ˜‰

January – April 2017 Reading


I’m taking a break from hiking posts to share with you a 2017 new years resolution that I’ve been doing my best to follow through with: reading.

I set my reading goals for 2017 pretty high. I typically read like.. 2 books a year and set my goal at 2 books a MONTH! My pitiful two books a year is not because I don’t love reading, but because I never made time for reading. I realized that my standard “well I just need read a little every night before bed” is not a solution for me. If I’m tired and ready for bed and then I decide to focus on a story, either the story is boring and it lulls me to sleep immediately (Aka I retain nothing on the page that Im reading), OR the book is fantastic and I get sucked in. Like completely sucked in, to the point that I can’t go to sleep until I’ve finished the book (at 3am on a weeknight) and even then my adrenaline is too pumping to sleep. By doing this “read before bed” plan, I was setting myself up to fail and only read 2 books a year.

Once I made my 2017 resolution of reading 2 books a month, I was forced to take a look at these habits and figure out what wasn’t working, and then come up with a plan that works. For example, I now don’t start reading any books after 9:30pm, because if the book is good (which it should be) then I’ll be up all night. I find that the first part of books tend to be slower paced (introducing characters etc) so if I’m starting a new book it’s best done at 6pm when caffeine is still in my system and I’m more apt to absorb what I’m reading to get past the first few chapters until I get sucked into it.

Another thing I’ve discovered is AUDIOBOOKS. How am I just realizing this is a thing? Up until this past year I’d only ever listened to Tina Fey’s BossypantsΒ as an audiobook on a road trip from Los Angeles to Las Vegas. I really just got that because I loved getting to hear Tina Fey read it to me, and I needed something to make the long drive go by faster.

Well, after getting my New Haven library card (another 2017 resolution) I’ve started going once a month to borrow a selection of audiobooks and I fly through them! I thought I would have trouble focusing on the book while driving, but it’s been the perfect solution for long car rides to Cape Cod and even for my 20 minute work commute. I’ve actually sat in bumper to bumper traffic and thought “thank god! I needed to find out what was going to happen next!”

January – April 2017 Audio Books:

The images above are a selection of audiobooks I’ve listened to on cd since the start of the year (there are even more than this!) and I’m super proud of myself. I’ve learned so much from all of these books and they’ve inspired me. Jon Krakauer’s Into Thin Air will make you feel like you are with him up on Mount Everest in this true story. He also wrote Under the Banner of Heaven which is a look at plural marriage, the history and it’s effects today. This book is especially relevant in 2017.

Betty White’s If You Ask Me (and of Course You Won’t), Mindy Kaling’s Why Not Me,Β andΒ Nora Ephron’s I Feel Bad About My Neck are all really fun books to listen to by their author. Betty’s such an animal lover and listening to her on my way into work in the morning would start my day on the right foot. I’ve listened to a few of Nora Ephron’s books and her wit, wisdom and true stories are empowering. She led such an incredible life, and hearing her describe antidotes makes for really fun car listening. She has a few more books that I’m looking forward to listening to.

Steve Martin’s An Object of Beauty and Harper Lee’s Go Set a Watchman are the only fiction books I’ve read (although both are an accurate portrait of their time periods+ setting). I will say that with these plot driven books, it was a little more challenging to listen and not miss important details as I was driving. I did find myself re-listening to chapters to fully grasp the details while driving. Keep that in mind when you pick a genre of audiobook. Also who is reading the book can be helpful. For example Go Set A Watchman was read by Reese Witherspoon and her acting ability and natural southern accent made this book come to life.

Aziz Ansari’s Modern Romance was challenging as an audiobook due to all the charts and graphs that I couldn’t see (keep that in mind when picking a book). I Like You: Hospitality Under the Influence by Amy Sedaris was fantastic as an audiobook. Her character and charm made it really fun. I actually own the hard copy of this book but loved getting to hear Amy read it.


Now as for my goal of “reading” (vs. audiobook) 2 books a month, I’m failing. I’m doing the best I can and I keep telling myself I’ll catch up.. but I’m behind. Given all the audiobooks I’ve listened to, I don’t feel like I’m failing, but I’ve only read 5 books since the start of the year.

I started the year reading Jessi Klein’s You’ll Grow Out Of It, which was really funny. She’s a successful, funny female who is completely relatable and I flew through this book. For Christmas I got Kristin Newman’s What I Was Doing While You Were Breeding, also written by a funny female comedian/comedy writer. This book is full of true travel stories from a female who lives in LA as a busy writer, but on hiatus lives it up traveling abroad. Warning: you’ll want to book a trip as soon as you’re done reading it (I totally booked a trip).

After two memoirs and a bunch of memoir audiobooks, I switched to a new genre and read The Woman in Cabin 10 by Ruth Ware. It’s part of this genre of strong female leads (think Chicklit but smarter) involved in solving/committing a crime. It has a Big Little Lies/The Girl on the Train/Gone Girl feel and really pulls you in. I read this book over 3 days because it was hard to sleep without knowing how it would end.

Once I hit April and the weather got nice, it got a LOT harder to stay home to read. I ended up re-reading David Sedaris’ Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim because I needed something light and fun. I LOVE David Sedaris so much that when I get a new book of his I fly through them. I should probably re-read all of his books.

Lastly, I’m in the middle of reading The Room by Emma Donoghue (also a major film that has won Oscars). I basically read the first half in one night (another case of can’t-sleep-until-i read-more-itus) but have been stalling on the second half because I just know something bad is going to happen.. as all books have ups and downs.. I’m just stuck and scared to move forward. I will, I swear.. I just need to be brave πŸ˜‰


Lastly, I want to share some books that I’ve purchased, had for a while on my to-read list, and some pre-ordered books that aren’t out yet, all of which are on my list to read next.

In a Dark, Dark Wood was Ruth Ware’s book before The Girl in Cabin 10 and I’ve heard really good things about it. Into The Water also just came out and is the follow up book by Paula Hawkins, to The Girl on the Train. Both are in that mystery+ strong females category.

The Husband’s Secret is by Liane Moriarty who wrote Big Little Lies. This book I started to read but had a hard time getting through the first 50 pages (introductions). I’m sure it will be fantastic like Big Little Lies, I just need to push myself over the hump to get into the thick of the story.

We Are Never Meeting in Real Life by Samantha Irby and Theft By Finding by David Sedaris both come out at the end of May and I am SO excited. I wait years for a new David Sedaris book and it’s finally here. I imagine this is how some people feel watching the Olympics. Samantha Irby’s book was an impulse purchase and Im really looking forward to it. Not knowing much about her means it’s all going to be a fun surprise.

Anna Kendrick’s Scrappy Little Nobody, Lena Dunham’s Not That Kind of Girl, and Amy Schumer’s The Girl With the Lower Back Tattoo are all memoirs by funny women I admire and I imagine I’ll be reading these in-between my more intense crime books.

I’m sharing all of this not to brag, but to hopefully 1) inspire you to read more and 2) suggest some good books to you. Listening to audiobooks is now one of my favorite things, and I wish I had given it a chance sooner. Plus books and audiobooks are expensive and really using the public library has saved me SO much money. I highly recommend it. Also, reading these genre’s of both crime solving strong female characters and real life memoirs from awesome females I look up to has inspired me to write more. Not necessarily publicly, but for now it’s been fun to write creatively and it adds spice to life. I think in a former life I was Nancy Drew, so it’s fun to imagine what that life is.

Shoreline Greenway Trail- Madison, CT

I’m backlogged in posts, specifically about hikes from my hike book, but I’m going to take a break to share about the Greenway Trail in Madison, CT. This path and separate parking lot are just outside of Hammonasset Beach in Connecticut. There is a Hammonasset “hike” (super easy) in the AMC hiking book, so it makes sense to lump these walks together and do them back to back. For now I’m sharing just the Greenway trail.

As you can tell from the photos, I did this hike back in March (or whenever our last snowfall was). There was only one other person on the trail while I was walking, and I imagine now that spring has sprung, this trail would be packed with walkers + bikers. It has it’s own free parking lot off route 1 (holds maybe 40 cars? so it’s not tiny), just after the entrance to Hammonasset.


Once you park, you can follow a path that makes you cross the driveway into Hammonasset, but the trail leads away from the entrance and takes you back toward Route 1.. this sounds confusing, but it’s easy to see the trail when you’re there.


Just to note, that parking lot for the Greenway trail is not overflow parking for Hammonasset. So please don’t park in that lot and then hike your way to the beach as a way to use the beach for free (to avoid paying the entrance/parking beach fee). It takes up valuable parking for those people who are there to use the intended trail. Okay, lecture over.


Back to the (snowy) trail! This path was basically paved and I would say is handicap friendly with excellent water views.


The trail goes along the backside of the Hammonasset campground, and you can even see an amphitheater where movies and events would be held in the summer. There is a fence separating the trail from the campground, but the view in made me think I should plan a camping trip there this summer. It was nicer than I had imagined for such a busy park.


As I keep going on the trail, I was able to see beautiful homes in the distance and big birds flying around. I’m sure this is a great birding spot.


So pretty, and flat!




Toward the end the trail follows closely with route 1, but there is a fence divider.



This is the end of the trail. My only complaint about this trail is that it isn’t very long. If you stopped here afterwork and wanted to do an hours worth of exercise, I would suggested doing 2 loops back and forth… maybe even 3.

I was naughty, and don’t recommend it, but I continued on my walk into the private neighborhood beyond the trail. I’m sure the neighbors hate it, but I really needed more exercise.


I didn’t take any photos of the street to respect the neighbors privacy, but at the end of each street there was a pretty beach view. That strip of land on the left side of the photo above (way in the distance) is Hammonasset beach sticking out into the water.


Down another street lead to a “DEP Property”. After this, I made my step count for the day and looped back to the parking lot.


On the walk back, I noticed that a rock had these painted “bug” rocks attached to it. It was a nice little artistic boost to my walk. Now go, do this loop, and see if you can find the painted rock-bugs!

Hike #33: Bluff Head Ridge in North Guilford, CT


A big thing I did when I lived in Los Angeles were the Secret Stair walks. That guide book got me out in the sun, visiting a neighborhood that was new to me, plenty of exercise, and all of the cheap price of a one-time book purchase. Now that it’s spring, I dug out my AMC Best Day Hikes In Connecticut hiking book and decided that I should tackle the hikes in this book during 2017. I won’t be able to do all 50 in 2017, but I certainly hope to do most of these hikes. My posts will not reveal all aspects of the hike, as I am not a replacement for owning this book, but hopefully my images can help encourage you to buy the book and follow along. Or at least inspire you to get a hike book for wherever you live and to get outside!


On a sunny (but chilly) March Sunday, I decided to tackle two hikes/walks (with a reward new-to-me coffee shop in between). Since my morning was filled with errands (as Sundays are known for), I really only had the second half of the day free for outdoor time. Aching for some sunshine and exercise (but not a super long car ride) I decided to head to North Guilford, CT to do hike #33 Bluff Head Ridge, from my hike book. This seemed like a challenging hike, it’s always best to start the day with a hard hike and then end with something gentler.


This Bluff Head Ridge hike was not crowded (1 other car in the medium sized lot) and still pretty snowy (As you can see below).


This two mile loop is not very long, but definitely has a tough spot. In the photo above you can see there’s a path going off the photo to the left (flat terrain) and a path leading up a VERY steep hill to the right. I assumed that it would start flat and I’d end up going down the super steep section (which is covered in snow).


So I started on the flat path, even stopping to visit a cemetery just off the path.


I kept walking slowly down hill, until I got to this little chained off area and realized that my hike book wanted me to do this hike in reverse.. aka: I was going the wrong direction. This also means that my hike needed to start with a slippery steep uphill climb.


I took a couple bites from my power bar and started up the hill. I have to say, the photo above does not do the steepness of the climb justice. There were times were my foot seemed nearly vertical and would slide down. I was glad to have my hiking boots on. The snow also made this more difficult, but I imagine in the summer the loose dirt would make this tricky.




But the reward of the steep never ending uphill is a sense of accomplishment, the joy of being super out of breath, and great views. While I was climbing There were definitely giant birds swirling around the sky above me… vultures? hawks? no clue, but big and loud.


At the top, at least the hillside had more access to sunlight so some snow had melted. In the photo above, on the right side, is where the hillside is really a cliff that drops down really far. I was very aware that one slip on the ice could be trouble.


Another part of this hike, that was more ominous than the vultures swirling above my head, were the constant gun shots that sounded like they were coming from the woods I was walking in. Now I didn’t see hunters.. or hunting signs, so I think I was safe, but it was the soundtrack to the hike.


Up, up, up!


So when I got close to the peak, I ended up skipping the highest section. I know this feels like a cop out, but between the gun shots, the vultures and the slippery ice for the last (as far as I know) stretch of uphill, it just didn’t feel safe given the conditions. It’s very hard to tell, but the photo above is that last steep stretch. It was steeper than it looks in the photo, and when I got closer to the start of the incline I could see that it was covered in ice. I felt like I would be okay going up this ledge, but was worried about how I would get down without slipping. The right side of the photo really is a cliff edge (misleading from the photo, but quite a drop off in person). Also no one knew where I was, and with only 1 other car in the lot, I didn’t think anyone would hear me if I needed to yell for help. From my map, I think I got pretty close to the peak, and I felt good about that. Next up was backtracking to a path that would create a loop out of this trail.


In order to back up to the hiking loop, I had to climb back over some slippery steep rocks. It was nothing crazy, but just slippery in the snow. It’s also clearly a well walked path by the foot prints, so I hope my note about the trail above isn’t a total turnoff.


Ahh, back on the hiking loop. Now I walked toward the gun shots. There were getting louder and louder so I imagine there must be a shooting range nearby, as they were also constantly shooting. I was brave on continued on πŸ™‚


I was wearing a bright purple coat, so at least I stood out amongst the trees. I also did my best to make noise on the trail. If there was a hunter out here shooting, I didn’t want to surprise them. This just meant I cleared my throat more often, and took louder steps.


It was Β pretty quick (only 2 miles) before I was back on the trail where I had mistakenly started the hike, and thereby close to the parking lot. Another one done! Since I didn’t get to make it to the absolute highest viewpoint, I’ll have to come back in a month or two when the snow is fully gone.


After this hike, I was in North Guilford and decided to head down to Hammonasset Beach in Madison. I stopped in the center of Madison (cute little downtown with shops) and grabbed coffee from Willoughby’s.

My next stop was going to be to do my 3 mile Hammonaset hike (#46 in the book), but instead decided to check out the Shoreline Greenway Trail in Madison. Eventually all of CT will hopefully have one long shorline trail, but right now there are just chunks of Greenway trail in several towns. I had posted about the Shoreline Greenway Trail in Guilford, and was anxious to check out the Madison portion along the water. I’ll have this walk to share with you next. Happy Friday! And be sure to get outside this weekend and explore!


Hike #47: McKinney National Wildlife Refuge- Salt Meadow Unit in Westbrook, CT


A big thing I did when I lived in Los Angeles were the Secret Stair walks. That guide book got me out in the sun, visiting a neighborhood that was new to me, plenty of exercise, and all of the cheap price of a one-time book purchase. Now that it’s spring, I dug out my AMC Best Day Hikes In Connecticut hiking book and decided that I should tackle the hikes in this book during 2017. I won’t be able to do all 50 in 2017, but I certainly hope to do most of these hikes. My posts will not reveal all aspects of the hike, as I am not a replacement for owning this book, but hopefully my images can help encourage you to buy the book and follow along. Or at least inspire you to get a hike book for wherever you live and to get outside!



After Hike 35Β (and my stop into Cilantro Specialty Foods Coffee Shop along the Guilford Green) I continued on to Westbrook to complete hike #47. It was getting late in the day so this hike was perfect timing and the right topography (easy) for this cold windy snowy day.

This hike had nice views, but was still wooded which protected me from the wind on this cold day. It was also relatively flat, so the residual snow didn’t pose much of a slippery threat.


Given the weather, I was the only one brave enough to handle this hike around 4pm on a Saturday. A nice big parking lot with just my Mazda in it. Thankfully based on the tracks in the snow, I could tell people had been there earlier in the day.


I won’t share the map from the book, but here’s a photo of the map hanging at the start of the hike/walk. You can see it’s pretty straightforward, basically one big loop with some water views along half of the trek.


This walk features plaques with information about the nature and the buildings on the property. This home has had some famous visitors (Eleanor Roosevelt!).


Based on the signs, you can tell this is a great birding walk.


You can see the paths are wide (snowy on this Saturday) and pretty flat.


This is a view looking back at the homestead. So pretty.


More birding plaques as the path makes its way into the woods.


This path gets a little more narrow as it enters the woods, and that’s when water/marsh views come into play as well as a view of the train tracks.





What a pretty peaceful trek. Just me and the birds.


Toward the end of the loop are the “ruins” of an old fountains and bbq pit that the owners of the property used to use. Off to the left is a bath leading down to a bird/marsh viewing platform. Don’t miss checking this out because it was a highlight of the loop.



I didn’t see any “special” birds, but Im no expert.



The walk loops back up…


And meets back up with the welcoming hut. Take a look at the paperwork + information inside.


As a woodworker, I love the close up of the “hut”. From here it was a short walk to the parking lot. This easy just-over-a-mile walk is a great outdoor loop, and a nice addition to follow up a longer earlier in the day hike.

Hike #35: Westwoods Reserve Trails- Lost Lake in Guildford, CT


A big thing I did when I lived in Los Angeles were the Secret Stair walks. That guide book got me out in the sun, visiting a neighborhood that was new to me, plenty of exercise, and all of the cheap price of a one-time book purchase. Now that it’s spring, I dug out my AMC Best Day Hikes In Connecticut hiking book and decided that I should tackle the hikes in this book during 2017. I won’t be able to do all 50 in 2017, but I certainly hope to do most of these hikes. My posts will not reveal all aspects of the hike, as I am not a replacement for owning this book, but hopefully my images can help encourage you to buy the book and follow along. Or at least inspire you to get a hike book for wherever you live and to get outside!

Now to share my first hike from this book! I started with hike #35 Westwoods Reserve Trails- Lost Lake in Guildford, CT.


I went right to the small lot that the book described (which only holds about 5 cars by the way). I imagine street parking is allowed as overflow from the lot.. but I’m not exactly sure, so check road signs! The first thing I did was photograph the map. I ALWAYS photograph the map of the trail I’m about to climb with my cell phone, to use as reference incase I get lost. This is surprisingly helpful.


The book clarifies this hike as “easy with moderate sections” and I would totally agree. For the most part is was small hills and wide stone paths (like photographed above) but there were short sections that involved steep climbing over rocks, up hill and down hill. I was very glad to have my hiking boots on and was glad there wasn’t more snow on the ground – too slippery!


This path starts be taking you by the railroad tracks which meant you could hear train noises frequently along the trail.


There are several splits in the trail, so keep vigilant looking for trail markers and confirm on the map.


At a few points you climb down the rocks along big boulders. The book talks a lot about the types of rock, trees, and plants.. although in the snow none of this was really applicable.


There are some steep uphill sections that lead to great water views of the lake.


Okay this made me laugh out loud when I saw it. I have no clue what/who this group is and I refuse to google “Team Alpha Butt Stuff” for obvious reasons.


Great views from the trail! I saw birds circling, so I imagine this is a great birding spot.


The hike takes you from down by the water to up on large rocks high above the lake.


This was a section where I had to use my hands to get up the boulders and then be careful not to slide down the rock faces. This is where the hiking boots really came in handy. It was also around here where I totally got lost. Since it was snowy, I figured if I followed the fresh footprints, Id eventually link back up with the trail. This theory turned out to be a good one, as it did lead me to where I needed to meet back up with the trail.. but I did end up climbing through muddy/swampy areas. So if you find yourself no longer seeing trail markers, work backward until you meet back up with the trail.


At the furthest point in the loop, there are some watery areas with little wood “bridge” planks. It was pretty fun. Don’t fall in!


The blue path that I was on became the orange “X” trail, which would lead me back to the parking lot.


Snowy, but pretty! I like that this trail had a pretty wide path, and the snow actually kept it from getting crowded. I only passed two people on the trail, but I imagine on a nice day this would be a busy trek.


Once again, you pass by the train tracks to get to the parking lot.


One thing that is fun about doing a hike in a new-to-me area is checking out the local coffee shops after the hike as a reward. I’m not new to Guilford but it was fun to make time to visit a local coffee shop and soak up the pretty Guilford Square scenery.


I stopped into Cilantro Specialty Foods Coffee Shop along the Guilford Green to warm up (it was a very cold day), refuel, and read up on the next hike I was headed to this afternoon.

Next up: Hike 47, McKinney National Wildlife Refuge (Salt Meadow Unit) !